Thursday, December 16, 2021
another day come and gone, oh well
On Saturday, I turn 40. For the most part, I don't feel particularly one way or the other about it. Even though I've lived enough years to forget things I do remember thinking just how old I thought 40 was when I was a kid, but being a couple of sleeps away, it's not bothering me too much.
Honestly, I don't think I'd be thinking about it too much, until I decided to think of my favourite song for every year I've been alive.
As a quick tangent, I am still going through all my records alphabetically, but I got bored of writing about them... hopefully that doesn't happen with this when we get to, like, 1988 or something.
Anyhow...
1981 - The Replacements - If Only You Were Lonely
I'm assuming this is obvious, but this isn't what my favourite song was during that actual year or this one would've been whatever my mom or dad was singing. I think my favourite song at the time and favourite song of that year now might match up around 1999, but for the most part, there's necessary revisionism going on.
With that said, obviously I didn't know the Replacements in 1981 and it was pretty far after they'd broken up before I found out about what would become one of my favourite bands. I think it was shortly after the Singles soundtrack--that featured two Westerberg solo tracks--came out. And I heard "If Only You Were Lonely" years after that, since it was the b-side to the "I'm in Trouble" 7" and not an album track.
But this tracks! I like mopey songs and I grew to love alt-country (is that redundant?) and this fits right in there.
As I approach (or am already firmly in) middle age, it's weird to think about how much I think "wait this band is getting back together?" and how thrilled I was to catch the Mats last reunion jaunt.
There was some interview with Danzig where he said some dumbass shit about how the Misfits couldn't be founded today because of cancel culture. And to be honest, there's some songs that I probably would've put on here years ago (Remix to Ignition, I'm looking at you") that I'm now like, "huh, no", but none of those songs are clearly fictional and about haunted pumpkins or collecting children's skulls.
I'm sure it's some latent contrarianism that explains why this isn't "Blister in the Sun", but this has always been my favourite Violent Femmes track.
I saw them in 2004, in Auburn, Washington for Endfest and they played right before Franz Ferdinand, who sounded like they only played some crappy radio festival because they got to play with the Violent Femmes.
When I was in junior high, my cousin Reagan sent me a couple of mix tapes with a bunch of bands that will show up on this list. But the one that completely blew my mind was the Jesus and Mary Chain.
I remember driving down to see them in Seattle 15 or so years ago and while they didn't have the big hair, they sounded just like they did on that cassette that I almost wore out.
upcoming shows
2/8 Twin Sister, Eleanor Friedberger, and Ava Luna @ the Media Club
2/9 David Choi @ the Rio
2/10 Secret Chiefs 3 and Dengue Fever @ the Rickshaw
2/13 White Buffalo @ the Media Club
2/14 The Ballyntines and Pleasure Cruise (TT) @ the Biltmore
2/18 Grimes w/Born Gold @ Fortune (early)
2/18 Cruel Young Heart, Young Liars, the Oh Wells, and Matiation @ the Dodson Rooms (AA)
2/18 Cursive w/UME @the Media Club
2/19 The Asteroids Galaxy Tour w/Vacationer @ Venue
2/20 Veronica Falls w/Bleached @ the Media Club
2/26 DJ Krush @ Fortune
2/29 Trevor Hall @ the Media Club
3/6 Slow Club w/Signals @ the Media Club
3/7 Cloud Nothings w/Mr. Dream @ the Media Clubr
3/8 Islands @ the Rio
3/10 Memoryhouse @ the Waldorf
3/17 William Fitzsimmons @ the Biltmore (early)
3/18 Magnetic Fields @ the Vogue (AA)
3/21 Plants & Animals>/b> @ the Rickshaw
3/22 Drive-by Truckers @ the Commodore
3/23 White Rabbits @ the Biltmore
3/23 Loney Dear @ the Media Club
3/24 Sharon Van Etten and the War on Drugs @ the Biltmore (early)
3/25 Nada Surf and An Horse @ the Rickshaw
3/27 The Ting Tings @ the Commodore
4/5 House de Racket @ the Electric Owl
4/6 Chairlift w/Nite Jewel @ the Electric Owl
4/7 Heartless Bastards @ the Media Club
4/8 Metronomy @ Venue
4/8 Gotye @ the Vogue (AA)
4/9 Cults @ Venue
4/10 First Aid Kit @ Venue
4/10 Andrew Bird w/Laura Marling @ the Vogue (AA)
4/13 The Odds and the Grapes of Wrath @ the Rickshaw
4/14 The Joel Plaskett Emergency @ the Vogue (AA)
4/24 School of Seven Bells w/Exitmusic @ the Electric Owl
4/26 Justice @ the PNE Forum (AA)
4/27 M83 @ the Vogue (AA)
4/27 Yukon Blonde @ the Commodore
4/28 Neon Indian @ Venue (early)
5/6 Delta Spirit w/Waters @ the Electric Owl
5/9 Yann Tiersen @ the Rickshaw
5/11 Great Lake Swimmers w/Cold Specks @ the Commodore
5/12 The Boxer Rebellion> @ the Biltmore
5/27 Coeur de Pirate @ Venue
legend:
AA = all ages
DG = @damaged goods
DFTK = @dirty for the kids
FJW = @fake jazz wed
EN = @easy now
GD = @glory days
HL = @higher learning
JH = @junior high
JY= @junkyard
RRPP = @rocknroll pizza party
SD = @shindig
TT = @toonie tuesday
NW = @no worries